Today is mine and my wife, Virginia's, 30th anniversary. It is called
the Pearl Anniversary.We've alway's put a big thing on for our anniversaries even though I don't know why especially after today.
I went to awake her to give hugs and say "Happy Anniversary," but
she just looked at me. It dawned on me that she was unable to speak.
Her eyes were open but she could only make noises. I even had to help
her to the bathroom. I had to clean her after the bathroom trip and
then clean her some more, dress her, and drove her to the hospital
ASAP. We get to the hospital, they draw blood, put in a cathater,
and admit her, and get her ready to ship her to Lexington, Ky. where
they have the equpment to test her better than at Corbin, Ky. At
Corbin, they have already determined that she did not have a stroke
bleeding in here brain, but they need to see if she might be hemorraging from somewhere else causing her to lose oxygen. I love
my wife and I was very worried.

Anyway, I tried 4 or 5 times to present Virginia the pearls I got
her for our anniversary. She didn't even recognize me or what a
pearl was. The ultimatereality is anniversaries are and can be sweet but certainly aren't necessary to a marriage, keeping one together,
or tearing one apart. Life is short and therefore marriage is short.
Don't let the forgetting of an anniversary or an expectation of a great anniversary, or anything else about an anniversary get in the
way of a marriage. If you do the ultimatereality is divorce is harder than living with a man that farts a lot or a woman that talks too much.

Time is such a huge subjet to try and write about. However, I will
try and hit it from the ultimatereality perspective. If you believe
in God or a supreme being, and Jesus Christ, as I do, consider that
time as not being relative at all within this universe. For example,
when Jesus Christ died on the cross, he had already completed that
occurrence. He could predict anything in the future because he knew
before hand what would occurr. The Bible indicates and so does Jesus,
that when a person dies on this earth, that immediately go to heaven
or hell. Yet, many times, the Apostles, and also Jesus, says that
when he returns for his second coming, he will raise all from the
dead, and he will then judge those to go to heaven and those who
will descend into the firey pit. In other words, when you die, time
becomes irrelevant, the second coming has already occurred, and you
are already judged, and you either go up or down, accordingly. Einstein also realized that time is relative in space. The ultimate
reality is time is only essential to a person who is born and then
dies on this earth. It matters nothing to the whole scheme of the
universe. It is a man made matter. For God's purpose, time is
definately irrelevant. Only events at his purpose and upon his
thinking and desire to they occurr. When does not enter into the picture. Jesus dying on the cross had to happen in our time of events
as we record it, but the purpose of his dying took care of past,
present, and future people's afterlives. The ultimatereality is
that time only matters to those of us who need to rely on scheduling,
event plannings and recordings, but to be born, live, and die, is
only an existance not measured by time, but by what you do while you
exist in body and then in spirit afterwards.
Again, I welcome responses and any donations for publishing and
marketing my book to come out in the spring.
Aaron Smittyjbob Smith, jen8eva@aol.com

10-28-06- There are many who believe and disbelieve in angels in
whatever form. I have been a skeptic because I could not find an
ultimatereality for them. However, after reading the bible and
trying to discover how things occurr and the power of God, I realize
that it is inevitable. The ultimatereality is to not believe is to
be narcissistic and closeminded. It is better to have faith and be
right than not to have faith and be wrong. Aha! That is the ultimatereality of all existance. I am not smart enough to think
that I understand know how God works his miracles in everyday and
everybody's life. It is at least reasonable to think that he has
helpers such as angels to do work such as these things for him at his
directions. That is a plausible and reasonable explanation for the
ultimatereality of believing in angels.
Now, let me give you a real experience of mine. In the late 1990's,
My wife was going through a tough time with prescription drug addiction and I was trying to pay the bills, take care of the house,
work 3 jobs, and keep sane with my almost grown children with the
exception of two of them. I was close to a meltdown. On my way to
work, I stopped at the same Speedway to get gas, cigarettes, and
my Cappucino. Well, I only had like $1.75 for gas after all else.
I paid for the gas and I was feeling very down because of my situation
and did not understand why I was having to deal with all of these
problems. Well, as I went to get in my 1985 van, a middle age afro-
American lady approached me and held out a 20 dollar bill. She stated,
"God sent me to you and said to give you this and to tell you that it
is not your fault." I ask who are you?" She replied, "You need not
worry, I am not from here. I was sent to give you this message."
She handed me the twenty and just began walking aggressively up the
street out of sight. I cried on the way to work. She knew exactly
what I needed to hear. I had no other justification or feeling except
that she was an angel. It was an ultimatereality that I had never
experienced before.
If you would like to respond, I appreciate it and will take and reply to all donations and responses. email = jen8eva@aol.com, address=
smittyjbob, 2650 n. hwy 25 w., Williamsburg, Ky. 40769

I was thinking while smoking a cigarette. Why on earth would I smok
cigarettes when I know they are going to kill me. Then I searched
for the ultimatreality. When I was born, it seems everything was
going to kill me sooner or later, even the open air I BREAthed and
the milk from my mother's breast, she smoked 3 paks for 60 years but
she is still alive at 80. The ultimatereality is predeterminism. You
are going to die on this earth when it's your time, nomatter what
you do, eat, drink, smoke, or whatever. Sure critics would say, well
if you smoke, scientifically you're going to inevitably get lung cancer. B.S. I will die of lung cancer when it's time unless I die
from something else first. You will be here as long as it is time
for you to be here. When it's time to move on, you will one way or
the other. If I wondered or quit what was going to kill me, I'd live
in a plastic bag-then i WOULD die from too much masturbation. Whatever, The super power is God. He will determine when it is time.
If he can keep up with each hair on your head, I'm sure he has the
wisdom and power to determine when each one of us is going away from
this earth in human form. Soooo! the ultimatereality is do what you
want as long as you follow God's Commandments. I don't recommend you
jump in front of a train to test this theory, although, that might
have been your way to go and the ultimatereality.

This is the third posting of this message. The last two mysteriously
got cleared and lost. I was only saying that it does not matter whether marriage between two of the same sex is right or wrong. The
ultimate reality is that it doesn't matter about sex. Under the
New Testament and as Jesus Christ would have it, the only things that
would matter is that two people love each other, are truthful to each
other and are willing to become one whole from two people. It is what
is in their hearts, not what type of sex they are having. Although,
one might argue that he would prefer marriage between the opposite
sex but he does not argue that this the only way. His concern is that
the premises mentioned above are met.
The ultimate reality of a legal marriage between two of the same sex is that they contract the marriage as if they were contracting a business deal. As long as consideration is met, a meeting of the minds
is clear and on paper, and all conditions are clearly defined and a
time table-for life, is included. A contract is a contract is a contract and can be enforeable in any State and binding as long as
it is constructed properly.
The ultimate reality is that anybody can get married no matter what
their sexual identities are, as long as both know the agendas and
the ultimate realities of the other so as the two can become one within their heart and codified into contract.
Again, if you have a subject to discuss or define the ultimate reality
thereof, or if you even want argue with me, please respond to this
blog, or email me To Smittyjbob, email= jen8eva@aol.com, or write
me at 2650 n. hwy 25w., Williamsburg, Ky. 40769. All donations are
accepted but not solicited for my book, and all responses will be
replied to, and all ultimate realities will be defined. Until
tomorrow, look deep into everything and determine its ultimatereality.